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Hello
thanks for answering my question but sadly almost everyone that answered missed the second part where I said this
"a very disappointing situation that just came from it. There was a tutor I worked with for math at my college. She's great and a wonderful person to be around with. My class ended about two months ago. I had to go to college for something I thought it would be a great opportunity to just go in the tutor lab and say hi and chat with her a bit. A friend of mine said he was going to be there as well so he said come in at the same time to work on some stuff so he said to me come when he is there. This is perfect because having a friend of mine there can make me more comfortable and help me create coversation. Now it is not like I want to get in this girls pants or something (hell she is engaged) but I just wanted to have a conversation about stuff and not be a completely anonymous person. I am so envious of all the people who are able to just go up to people and just chat. I can't do that at all.
so I go there, but instead of going inside I get too anxious and just paced around outside of the place for like ten minutes and then just when I was thinking of going inm, she leaves (turns out she was leaving early today). I am so frustrated now and filled with regret. My freaking anxiety totally prevented me from just going in just to say hi.
there's a chance I can see her again some time but I have no idea what the schedule is going to be like. And with my friend being there today, this was such a perfect opportunity and I wasted it,
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I am wondering how do I get over this regret? I really wanted to talk to her then and it was a great opportunity and I totally missed it. Also you have any tips incase I see her again?
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I did read your question thoroughly when you wrote it and I did take into consideration what you're asking about today. Included in my answer is the fact is that you need to get over your anxiety and I believe I included ways to do so in my answer.
There are a great many people both men and women who have problem you write about. Going up to stranger leaving someone you know casually to strike up a casual conversation is rough for many of us. Sometimes the best way to have casual conversations is to do so in a situation where there is mutual knowledge lack of another's way to put it. This would be club or activities where you have mutual interests we can strike up conversation over something that might've been discussed or using photography for example where someone might be discussing with another particular camera where you have knowledge of it. When you have knowledge based information to impart it is Easier to just start talking I guess is good way to put it because your conversation is based on something you are comfortable with and I believe I said something to this effect in my original answer.
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