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Hi I'm Cecilia Grobler I'm 14years Old and I had sex and it still pain
My boy friend ask'd me if I can come over He's 16 and I'm 14..(We are 1year and 7months together And we are very close)watch movies and just chill! We were kinda a bit 'jags' He's parents were there but they go for a nap we lied in the living room on a matras his little brother on the 'coutsh'.But seilintley het starts kiss me in my neck and softley bite me when he's hands go slowly to my brests!(He toutch it before)it didn't bother me! Slowly he unbotten my pants and starts to vinger me..it was my firts time someone did it..but I admit it was the most lovely feeling ever ..then he said let's go the the bathroom (I did) and he stats kissing me and push me against the wall ..He taked my hands and put it ons it *thing* and lead me how to give him a Blewjob and it was kinda akward (bcs it is my first)but It started to feel nice ..He had an 'horing' for the whole time (and I don't know Was it so nice or is it horrny?)And then we seilently went back..and lied again and we start making out..And sadinly he ask me want to feel how it feel (I wanted to say no) but deeply I wanted to do It just as much as he..and I Say Yes (altought its our 1) and slowley with close he starts pulling me closer and start doning it (it was nice) we was both horney!! A Lot!! The he said turn aroud and put your leg over me ,so I did it..and he took he's thing and put it in my virgina..just when he starts puting it in he wasint so deep in so 2cm..he's mom wake up and with the hearing she is coming he pulled fast out (that was most pain ever) I had a bit of bloud (not more than a drop I think) but my Question is Why do I still have pain when it happend on 10August(womens'day) and from today I still have pain and I'm late with my period its now 35days from when I stop ...? I'm to scared to tell someone!!I don't think I could be pregnant But why am I late and why the still pain? I've read someone has the same probleme and the girl was 16 and her boyfriend 17 she did it and she had pain and didn't get her periods (she got a pregnansy test and it was negative) she then told her boyfriend ans they did it again. So I thought Must I do it again (this time let he go right in or leaf it and wait for my periods)????(Sorry for spelling I'm afrikaans)
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You didn't have to go into detail. You could have just said you had sex and we would've understood.
It's painful because you are young and your body is still developing. You could have been really tense and that can cause pain or you were too dry or he didn't use enough lubricant.
You didn't say that you used protection. So it is actually possible that you can get pregnant. If he didn't use a condom, and you guys had sex, you can end up pregnant. There's one girl I know who had sex for maybe like 3 seconds and she ended up pregnant.
I'd stop having sex because it sure sounds like you aren't ready or very responsible.
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Trust me. We know what sex is. You didn't have to describe it in such graphic details.
The pain could perhaps be from stretching of the hymen.
So you are worried your pregnant, so you think the pain will go away if you have more sex. Hello? Do the opposite!
You're 14, and have your life ahead of you. Now is not the age to be experimenting with sex wearing no protection-unless you want to be covered in baby sick this time next year.
You're 14-periods are irregular at this age anyway. Give it another week. If there's still nothing I would get your boyfriend to give you a pregnancy test. it takes two to tango and your gastration circumstances are his responsibility as much as yours. Plus he's older than you so may be able to afford one??
If you are then you'll have to tell someone. The person who'll be paying for the upkeep of it. And if you're not wear protection next time. You know you can go to youth centre's and get free pregnancy tests and things?
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