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School and friends advice
Please read School and friends advice help?
The story is confusing I asked this question twice and no one answered because it was too long.
So I am going to try and make this really short.
School is starting up I am going into 4th year and this Is a really important year I have exams ! So I am going to study ALOT this year and last year was the first year we all got different people in different classes that is when It all changed and me as a person. I drifted from my best friend and during that summer I got a lot closer to one of our friend and we have been friends for like over a year. Everything changed it use to be me ,lara ,morgan and then lara started speaking from our old friend from primary and then she got close to me now and now she's my bestfriend.
Also the old 3 of us I speak to them now and then in school it was me and lara joint to the hip and morgan was our best friend aswell but we were closer and this was a year ago and we have admitted its not the same between us because I have changed so much. But I don't mind but my best friend and lara are in like all the same classes this year and they will get a lot closer. But I really want to speak to more people this year make new friends because its only me my bestfriend and lara and my bestfriend will get close. But I don't mind I guess but last year I just didn't speak to anyone at all but my best friend and I don't want it to be like that this year.
I want to get close friends with more people instead of just the one person because we just speak about her love life I do not mind that at all because im helping but I never get to talk even though there is nothing to talk about I just give advice and we have a good laugh. I don't want that too change ! But I would like to speak to more people.
But I dontknow who my type of person is. The school is **** theres the Popular ones so far up their own **** there is the nerds omg me hanging with nerds im too stupid no , then the neds smoking in the back of the school nah , the one me and my bestfriend stand with the crazy/emo group and we have decided were not standing there again there annoying we will go now and then but nah we looked like lost puppies !
So I just want some friends and get close to a few people id prefer a boy just a good guy friend but I dontknow what type of person I fit into and how can I speak to them and should I just block everyone out again like I did last year I shouldn't have done that last year but my classes were full off bitches and neds and probably the same this year . So where do I start what will I do ?
Also today my bestfriend was telling me lara asked her to go too a concert she asked me to go too and said that we haven't been speaking we did until she sent a message complaining and me and my bestfriend for not inviting them out so shes fell out with me and not her
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When we are young the big stuff and even the small stuff all seems like life or death issues and it's hard to make decisions and know we are making the right ones.
You have a deep feeling of the need to "belong" somewhere, and the easiest way for you is to find a group that hangs out together and has been labeled "such and such" by others.
When I was your age, I felt much the same. I did not belong in any of the groups you mentioned either. There were plenty of kids like me but I didn't have anything in common with them to want to hang out. I wish I had thought of doing some volunteer work. What I did was turn toward religious groups. Tried the Jobs daughters cus dad was a Mason but didn't like it. Too strict ritualistic and no fun. So I ended up with church youth groups. I attended two different ones at the same time. That satisfied my need to connect with others. You don't have to become a church member or even believe it all, but I found it a better place to find kids who didn't fit into the catagories you mentioned. Oh, there were a few, yes whose parents forced them to go. I can't say if it will be much the same today. At school people are going to act a certain way to be popular when thats not really who they are. Pretending to be something they are not. Away from school at other venues, community teen activity centers or youth groups, they find it easier to be themselves. You may find it easier to find people you can connect with as friends in other places. Think about it. Ask the parents. Ask at the local pool or recreations center if there are teen related groups to hang out at. Thats my best advice dear. Good luck!
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