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losing my best friend
So I've got a bit of depression and I've bEen really down and whatever so today my best friend asked me why I've been so down lately and I said I'm sick so she said she finds it really hard to be my best friend(probably because of me being down) now her and the other girl In our group is becoming best friends, they doing everything together and I don't know how to get my best friend back. I find it so hard to not cut anymore because she was my reason to stop. The reason I don't tell her what's wrong anymore is because she's said things about me being attention seeking, that I must leave the earth and that I'm not really suicdal, stuff like that. I really don't want to lose her :( please help get her back?
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I'm not sure if a real best friend would say anything of that sort, but if you want her I'll try to help. You need to be totally honest about your depression and tell her its nothing about seeking anything, its a condition. Also make her understand that you don't want to loose what friendship you guys have built. By this time you will figure out if she is really worth being called a best friend. She can take it and run with it or not want to deal with it. I hope she is a true friend and tries to help. I know I would. But also understand that it is natural for a person not wanting to hang around someone who is down all the time. Just like a relationship it take two.
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Dear best-friend troubles, Think about how you really feel and think about your best friend. Think twice. If you are certain you want to be friends with her, confront her when she is alone. I`ve been going through what you are so many times. Never think about cutting yourself. When I did, I realized cutting myself is just to let out my anger. Seek a therapist or a school counselor. There are plenty of fish in the sea! There is no reason to die young, sweetie! I wish you the best.
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