I should have more instagram followers than her! I don't know what to do...
Question Posted Sunday July 7 2013, 5:53 pm
So, I have a second instagram that I use to quotes and stuff (do bacically not a personal). Well my friend just made hers this week and has more followers than me. And now she's trying to help me and its so annoying. It's like so brags when she's trying to help me.😠I should have more followers than her.😞😒 I just don't like it, but when ever I try to tell her how I feel she just doesnt listen or she'll just say " no I don't" what do I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Dragonflymagic answered Monday July 8 2013, 8:47 pm: What's wrong with using Facebook to create a page. You need to have a basic interest of your own that prompts you to create a page. For example I have a daughter who is very much into Cosplay. So she created a page where she shows people photos of her in costume at several different conventions. Posts lots of helpful pics and links to people who provide like the wigs, colored contacts, etc..
She even created own out of her love for her cat and posted photos of her cat.
Do not let anyone help you. Whatever you create should be your own. I think you may be trying to find some self worth by seeing "numbers" of people who follow you. Hon, that is not the way to build up your self worth. Sorry I had to be blunt about it. Maybe its a shock to you but the goal should be first to build up your self image, becoming happy and satisfied with who you are inside at core.. .to a point where you do not Need to have followers of anything. Then when you create something, there is a better energy behind it and it will attract people with similar interests. This has been bothering you for quite some time. I believe you may have written in before. There is no magic wand or wish upon a star that will make you happy. If you don't learn now how to find joy within...you will have the same problems throughout your whole life...always feeling you don't measure up to others and being unhappy. the reason you will never measure up to being exactly like someone else is "Because you are not supposed to measure up." Each one of us is a unique creature. You just need to discover who you are and only then will you succeed at anything. It is like you are the round peg trying to fit into a square hole. You were never meant to. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
babymoby answered Monday July 8 2013, 3:23 am: Honestly, instagram isn't really about followers. It's about sharing your pictures with family and friends and it even took me a while to figure that out.
If you're really desperate followers you can try the hashtag trick or follow and then unfollow people once they follow you back, liking a ton of other people's photos may cause them to follow you too. [ babymoby's advice column | Ask babymoby A Question ]
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