|
same question
you answered a question a few days ago about a guy that stopped texting me and that I should text him first because he probably thinks I blew him off. but before that when we were texting we took like a 9 day break then started texting then stopped like I said. then yesterday he texted me hey and we talked neither of us didn't bring up to hangout we were just catching up on stuff. and I said something and was like I guess I miss seeing you all the time lol and he was like lol aww thankyou. he said he appreciates being missed because I asked why he said thankyou I mean I didn't expect to say it back but im like really confused
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I am not sure what to say. It sounds like the only relationship you have is one of texting each other, not being in each others company and experiencing things in life together.
To be honest, I did not grow up in such a technological era. The very first computers were available when I married but not user friendly no windows and no email, no cell phones. I enjoy the technology but I never over rely on it as a method of trying to meet someone and start a relationship.
Texting and computers should just be looked at as a tool.You want to plant a flower, you use a spade to dig the hole. Texting is a nice supplement to an already established relationship. Men don't make commitments like women do. Their brain is wired different. Women have to communicate and be blunt to know where they stand with him. So you can say, Looks like we both enjoy texting each other. I was wondering if you are ready to go to the next level and actually hang out together in person dating. If he says no...ask why. And don't take it hard if he just isn't into you other than a female friend he texts sometimes. I have a feeling you are looking for more than that in a guy. AAnd they are out there. If he isn't wanting to date, then be nice and texting friends only with him but turn your search towards other guys for a potential relationship.
]
It's really hard when guys aren't being straight up with you.
I really can't tell how he feels or what he wants because it could be either or.
With my experience, when a guy doesn't tell me he's missed me when I haven't seen him in awhile, and responds with an "Aww :)" then I pretty much got the hint that he doesn't feel the same.
But he did text you so he was thinking about you. So that's a good thing.
Anyways, this guy is giving you mixed signals and the best thing to do is be straight up with him and make sure he is straight up with you.
]
More Questions: |