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Bj
17/m
My girlfriend and I are sexually active. She started to give me head and it feels super good... obviously but I don't come like when I do when I have sex or masturbate by myself.
When I do it myself or have sex it feels like a normal good feeling when I come.
When she gives me head my tip gets really really sensitive where I have to stop her cause it's so sensitive. The only other time I have felt this is when we grind with clothes on and it gets sensitive but never to where I have to stop.
I noticed when I get super sensitive when she goes down that I kind of come... it looks more just like a lot of pre-cum then normal cum.
What is the cause of this? I would rather have a normal orgasm when she goes down cause it feels better and she likes it when I finish.
Any help is appreciated.
Thank you.
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Several things, it could be your penis is so used to how your hand feels that when she gives oral sex it doesn't feel the same so you don't come. I read somewhere that one thing that can be tried is have the man not masturbate for a while and then give her a chance to see if that helps.
Then again some men just have a harder time coming by oral sex.
Take my husband of 4 years, as often as we do it because as you said it feels good, it doesn't always get to the point of orgasm though I have tried several different techniques. And sometimes the tip gets sore. Sometimes he does orgasm that way but not often, maybe once every other month. We don't let it bother us. Just as some women get orgasm better by clitoral stimulation than by g-spot. And for those who get g-spot orgasms, not all of them are able to gush and squirt. We are all different. Enjoy what you do have.
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This is normal for many guys. Your girlfriend is concentrating on the head of your penis where there are a lot of nerve endings. In a sense she has gotten these nerves over stimulated and instead of pleasure you are feeling a strange sort of pleasure-pain.
When you start to feel this happening ask you girlfriend to back off a bit and concentrate more on your shaft or switch to a handjob to bring you to completion or to allow the nerves to calm down so she can go back to sucking on your penis again.
Most guys feel what you're feeling right after ejaculating. The fact that you have some cum or see some cum says you may have had a mini - orgasm and are now super sensitive as are most guys. This is normal.
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