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#forreal my dad
ive liked this guy for 5 years and my dad says hes going to merry someone else and god told me merry him no names i dont know who but im guessing its him please help
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You may have liked this guy for a long time but if he is getting married that means that the two of you were not meant to be. Try finding someone else that interest you. God may have given you a message but that doesnt mean it was about this guy. God has a plan for everyone and in time everything will work out the way it was meant to work out for you. God loves you and would not send you a message of false hope. Maybe you just interpreted this message wrong. Give it some time and I am sure you will find someone else.. The person you are meant to be with is out there somewhere, you just have to give it time, and remember to keep your eyes open. The one you are meant to be with could have been right in front of you the whole time. Stay positive! This guy may not have been the one for you but you will find that person someday. good luck and best wishes
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When I was a teen I heard from God but as I grew older, I realized that half the time I had been interpreting the message I heard wrongly. With life experience and maturity, you will learn to get better at knowing what was a divine word and what was up for question.
Here's a good example using a term of words.
"I will knock you up later." That is an idiom. In our country it means that someone is promising to get you pregnant. In the U.K. that term means I will get in contact with you (by phone or knock on door) later. Sometimes, it is the frame of reference, like where your mind is at and your strongest hopes and dreams that can influence it.I am assuming you are a teen. I did not date around to discover what I liked and didn't like in a person. It is easy for a person to present a fake persona, until you live with them or after a few months they let down their guard and show the real self.The teen and college years are a time for dating..not just one but several people, not all at one time though lol. If you don't go through several relationships you won't have the perspective or frame of reference to make the comparisons of what you like or not. So just relax and take one day at a time. If someone wants to date you or you want to date someone, just ask. If its not the guy you like, it's okay...you have to start learning somewhere. Attraction isn't always both ways. Sometimes only the guy likes the girl but shes not interested in him or its the other way around. Thats life. You don't want to force a relationship to happen that may not be meant to be because it will crash and burn at some point. Of course even if I did not tell you this, you would some day learn the hard painful way by experiencing it. Don't keep yourself out of the dating ring by waiting for the 5 yr guy to notice you.
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