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What should I do?
So the guy I like isn't over his ex, but he claims he is. Well she text me talking mad shit & what not.. & I guess he told her pretty much EVERYTHING we talk about together. I really do like him & she claims she will always have him, I don't wanna give up on us because then she will get what she wants but i then again I also can't trust him anymore after telling our business. I don't know what to do... Should I just cut it off with him or forget about it & put it behind us.
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Cut it off. If he actually told his ex everything you and he talked about he is way, way too involved in her and she's probably right about him being hers.
If he wants to be involved with someone so immature that they text you talking shit...
Relationships should be about the two of you being happy together. You aren't happy and you actually had the thought "If I give him up she wins..."
Sweetheart if you suffer over him she wins too. The only way you win this is by not playing. Walk away. He's not grown up enough to do this right even if he wants to get away from her. I'll be willing to bet they're going to be on again off again for a while. Steer clear of it.
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If you are having doubts and you cant trust him then maybe its time for you to move on. If he is not being honest with you and he is still talking to this girl it sounds to me he is not ready for a new relationship. You deserve better than that. He should not be telling others what you two talk about in private. You are an amazing person and should be treated as such. My advice drop him and go find someone who treats you like the amazing girl you are. You may not find that person right away but its definately not worth sticking around with someone who doesnt even care about how you feel. Good luck and I hope I helped
Stephie
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sounds like you need to make a decision between if you want drama in your life or not.
If he goes telling others what you talk about in private or what you may privately share for his ears only. . . he is not considerate of your feelings to begin with. His set of values and morals and who he is at core is up for questioning.
A man who truly loves a woman is going to love who she is on the inside, your whole character, your sense of humor, and yes even your own natural look because he is drawn to that particular look: whether tall, short, blonde, brunette, redhead, thin or chubby men each have their personal taste in a female and then it goes beyond to who they are inside. When you find that kind of guy who is attracted to you, there is no woman in the world who can attract his attention, even if she comes outwardly in the same looks, like say identical twins. The difference is who are inside cant be duplicated. You are unique. The other woman is not the issue...never will be. It is who your man is. The right guy is not going to be drawn to drama queens like that. If she does get him, it's probably because they are two peas in a pod and deserve each other. You deserve way better than that.
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