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i dont get it lol :S
its been like a month my ex stopped talking to me, suddenly he stops, we used to talk once in a while and have long conversations and then all of a sudden when i used to say hi he would be cold lol :S , like i rather have him telling me he dont wanna talk to me instead of making me think whether i've done something wrong..
But seriously he didn't even bother wishing me happy birthday a week ago, the same way i did to him when it was his bday.. i just dont get why he would stop talking lol :/
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Because he is your ex
He is no longer in a relationship with you and is not entitled to talk to you. It really sounds like he has no interest in even remaining in contact. When an ex is an ex it means they are the past, You really should move on. It is a shame that he doesn't have the balls to say it, but he is giving enough hints. Move on
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Ok so this guy is your ex boyfriend?
If he acts cold, he probably doesn't really care to talk to you. He probably doesn't want to be straight up and tell you he doesn't want to talk. But obviously, you're getting the hint.
Are you guys just friends? Do you still like him and that's why you want to talk to him?
Sometimes it's really hard to be friends with an ex because they're going to move on eventually to someone else. That's why most people can't handle being friends with their ex. If you can do that, great. But he doesn't seem as interested in being friends.
There's nothing much you can do but accept that he doesn't really feel like talking to you as much. If you want, you can ask him why he's being cold but I think you already know why.
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While it's nice that you wanted to part as friends, I have no idea what the reasons were in you breaking up. An ex boyfriend or husband is no longer in your life. That means you need to move on. Talking to someone in your past and trying to do so daily or every other day is not normal. It means you are trying to fill some need you have and trying to continue to use him to do so. You need to take some time and think about it, ask yourself why, why do you need to hear from him? I don't remember the birthdays of any of my past boyfriends. So to put your mind at rest, it isn't that you have said anything wrong, it's the fact that you are trying so hard to talk at all. He knows if he acts friendly, it would encourage you more...so he acts coldly hoping that will discourage you from contacting him but it doesn't so he is confused. I would be too.
If half the time, he is the one who made first contact, when then apparently he finally came to his senses. If you weren't right enough for each other to keep from breaking up, then it's best that neither one of you talk to each other. Once you have moved on, it's okay to send a facebook message once every other month and let the friend know whats new in your life and ask how they are... just the basics to keep in touch. If they don't respond, then don't worry about it. And stop putting effort into trying to get a response back.
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