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Who should do the next move


Question Posted Thursday June 27 2013, 7:23 pm

A guy that I like from work finally asked for my number and we texted a bit the other night. He said that he would ttyl... Should I be the one that initiate or should I just wait on his word until he texts me ?

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lightoftruth answered Sunday June 30 2013, 3:37 am:
I think you should text him. It definitely shows that you're into him.
I was talking to one of my guy friends the other day was talking about how he likes it when girls initiate texting sometimes because it seems like girls are always the ones waiting for a text. So I think it should be even between the two of you.

Us girls should never really over think texting, it's not a big deal, it's not a phone call or something. So I think you should text him.

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Dragonflymagic answered Sunday June 30 2013, 1:06 am:
Does it have to be texting? I mean, you could call and actually talk instead of text. If he has enough interest to ask for your number, he definitely will enjoy hearing from you. You don't know his schedule and when he is available to talk. You have so much to talk about and find out about each other. You can do that much easier by having a conversation like you would in person, just on the phone instead.

While some guys enjoy texting, not all enough typing. The greatest majority do not write on line or text much at all. When I was on a dating site, of the guys who wrote to me, 90 % wrote just a few short phrases. I could learn nothing about them until we switched to phone calls. Then the men were communicative. So give him a call and talk to him.

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