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Does he like me ? Or was it just being friendly
Hi,
K so there's this guy that I like from work.. He's six years older than I am and I am 17 years old right now. When we first met I felt like he may have liked me cause he would always try a way to touch or even try to hug me several times. But ever since he found out about my age , he sorta then backed off.. Just because maybe he felt that i was just too young for him :/
So then several weeks went by before he stopped acting awkward and starter to be friendly again but like not as "friendly" as before. So then anyways the last time I saw him he said I looked pretty several times throughout my shift, and it was because I was all dolled up for grad that night after my shift and at the end he even stopped me after my shift and pulled me in hugging me saying I looked pretty again. A few days after grad he fb messaged me and asked if I was working tonight out of the blue and I said no haha and then he said u should be working !!! And then somehow he asked for my number and then he texted me late that night after his shift like at 12 pm all the way to 1:30 ish am. We talked and he said that he saw pictures in facebook and said that i looked pretty at grad and asked how it was. he also asked if i always stayed up this late and i boldly said that it was because i liked ralking to him. But when we were texting I felt like he didn't give in much to the conversation like I was always the one asking . And then him answering. He finally said that he was going to bed and that he would ttyl. Does he really mean that ? Or was he just being nice? Does he like me ? I'm so confused ...maybe I'm just overthinking. Do u think he may have been bored at our conversation ?!
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You're definitely over thinking this. But of course, pretty much every girl does.
It does seem like he's into you. Guys who just want to be your friend don't normally compliment you or hug you that much. I think he backed off because you are too young for him.
We don't know if he really means he'll talk to you later, but he most likely will and I don't think he was bored of your conversation. Especially since he texted you back for that long. Normally when guys aren't interested, they won't stay up late at night to talk. Remember that.
But the age is the problem. So continue talking to him like a friend and once you turn 18, then you can get more friendly.
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First, I think his initial reaction to hearing your age was the fact you weren't 18 yet. He did not want to be in trouble for going after someone under age. However, I find it odd he would hug you at work. Most employers are very about no sexual harassment at work. Hugging is great, maybe his whole family are huggers and that's the only way he knows how to greet people.
The reason you are doing all the texting and keeping a typed conversation going is because most males hate to type. They would prefer voice talk. So he is not bored with you, he wants a real conversation. Try an actual phone call to him instead of texting and see if there is a difference.
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