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I'm a 13 year old guy who gets horny
I'm a 13 year old guy who gets horny a lot. I dont know what to do I masterbate when it gets that bad. But it changes how I feel about girls. And how I talk to them. I get really sweet am they like me and then they think I like them. I dont know what to do. Please help ):
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All 13 yr old boys get horny alot...welcome to the human race. LOL
Warning:
Don't ever pretend to like a girl to get sex. You will develop a reputation for being a player. That doesn't help you when you finally do fall for a girl and feel love for her. The good girls are not going to take you seriously.
What you are feeling is lust, not love. Meeting the right girl can change that all for you. When you meet this girl, although you feel aroused by her, your heart and mind has also taken an interest in her. You find yourself wondering what she thinks of you as a person, you want to please her, you want to be near her all the time because just being in her presence makes you feel good. You don't want to ever hurt her feelings or use her. You don't want anyone else to mistreat her either, even her friends, cus now you are feeling protective over her. Your heart skips a beat when she responds to you in conversation...etc... it is a wonderful thing.
Having sex for the first time or first couple times shouldn't be something that you forget cus it was no big thing, just you scratching an itch. It should be memorable, with both you and your girlfriend having deep feelings for each other and wanting to please each other sexually. You both plan it, make it special and likely if she enjoyed it well enough, you've likely just gotten yourself a lover as well as friend.
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Being 13 and Horny is absolutely normal for your age. Masturbating to relieve the sexual tension of puberty, which is the cause of you being horny, is absolutely normal. A teenage boy will masturbate 4 or more times a day which is considered normal.
Does it effect how you talk to girls? Not really, I believe that is all in your mind. Courting as your great-grandparents would call talking to girls and trying to get them to go out with you is all new. This is all part of teenage life. It is a learning experience in adult relationships.
When you were younger maybe you and your friends played soldier. The girls would play nurses and tend to your wounds. At least that is how it was when I was a preteen. Now your a teenager and sexually aware and it is a whole new ball game. Girls are different now, your different now.
Just relax and be yourself. The girl isn't going to bite you and she is just as nervous about all this as you are. So just be yourself and talk with her. Talk about things you have in common such as school, teachers and classes.
When you talk about things you have in common it makes it easier to get to know each other and easier for you to ask her on a date and for her to say yes. If she says no don't get upset. Boys are allowed to date sooner than girls so she may not be allowed to date and to ashamed to say so.
If you think this might be the case, instead of asking her on a date. Ask her if she would like to meet you at the mall on Saturday. That's not really a date its just hanging out together.
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