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Should I be concerned?
About two nights ago I went over to my friend micheals house, we ended up having sex. We didn't use protection but I am on the pill I have been on it for about 7 days now. Michael and I have had sex before, and the last time I ended up telling my mom the day after and the next day she took me to the doctor and got me tested for STD'S and put me on birth control my results came back clean, that was about 2 months ago. Ever since having sex with him again, I have realized that I have gotten red bumps on my leg I don't know if they have anything to do with what I did with him or if they're flea bites because I have also been dog sitting. I don't have any bumps on my vagina yet they're only at the bottom of my legs and they appeared the very next day after inter course, I put Neosporin on them yesterday but they haven't gone away they have only gotten worse, and more have appeared over night. I have also noticed that when I went to the bathroom this morning I had a dark brown discharge, I googled what that could be and the results varied from STDS, to signs of pregnancy, to just being blood mixed with the discharge. I didn't get a clear answer. The night Michael and I had sex was the night after I got off my period. I was thinking about going to the pharmacy and buying the morning after pill (which is what I did last time) but I figured the birth control was enough, but now after seeing the brown discharge I am having my second doubts.
What do you think the red bumps are from? do you think the brown discharge could be a sign of pregnancy? Could the red bumps on my leg be scabies? What do I do? do I have a bigger chance of getting pregnant since I had sex the day after I got off my period or do I have less of a chabce. I don't want to tell my mom about this again because last time she flipped out and I told her that what happened between Michael and I would never happen again, but it did and now i'm fearing every possible thing that could go wrong is going to go wrong. am I over thinking this or should I tell my mom and take yet another trip to the doctor. Also, I know nothing about Michael's past with girls, I have no idea how many he's been with or who he's been with, but he has been my first everything.. HELP!
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Bumps at the *bottom* of your leg? Like, your ankles? Not likely to be sex - unless you were doing it wrong.
Oh - hang on. They are getting worse. Right. When you have something weird happen *that is getting worse*, you see a doctor about it. That's just the crazy world I live in.
It's ok to tell your mom, b/c bumps on your ankles, yeah, probably from the dogs. If it's an STD …
Sex after your period finished. Bad idea - you know sperm can survive for days?
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God, what a train wreck. Look, you silly, silly girl. The reason your mom flipped out is *BECAUSE OF THIS*. She knows what kind of guy Michael is, even if you don't. How bad are you going to let these bumps and discharges and god know what else get? Chlamydia causes permanent infertility, along with a bunch of other stuff you don't need. You cannot hide this forever, and the longer you leave it, the worse it will be.
PS: get rid of the idea that something just kinda "happened" between you and Michael. Like you had nothing to do with it. You had sex with him, it didn't just "happen". You are old enough, now, that you can badly screw up the entire rest of your life doing dumb things. You may already have done it. Tell your mom. See a doctor.
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Read the insert that comes with your pills for explanation on how long before its effective. I have read that it also depends on what type of pill you are taking and at what point in your cycle you were when you started taking them.
Also put the name of your pill, it's medical name for the type of hormone it is into a google search and read up on the side effects of it. Many women suffer from one side effect or another. Others are not effected at all. I was not on the pill but still got brown discharges at times in my life when my period was late due to stress or being sick. Being on the pill can affect your cycle also. As for bumps on your upper thighs, it could simply be from both your own and his sex fluids. Not always but at times my husband and I will get those little bumps. It's from the skin being damp all night as we slept or a combo of how strong our fluids were. What you eat changes the taste of your fluids and i assume also the sharpness of it as far as having an irritating effect on the skin. Thats why we don't always have it. A good thing to try is washing up right after sex. You could Make it something special with your boyfriend getting a nice warm wet washcloth and thoroughly wiping your intimate area's clean. It's very special experience. If you routine wipe up afterwards, the irritation should go away. If it doesn't see a doctor. Also, you may not have to see the doctor for any questions but his assistant or staff may be able to answer you over the phone about how long to be on your particular pill before its effective in case you've lost the paperwork. If you have the name of it though, start by looking it up on line. I've done that for other girls when they give the name of their medication. I dont know why they couldnt find it on their own. Each type of contraceptive will also have lots of womens comments on how good or bad it is. Usually the bad effects listed.
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