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I turn into a very horrible person when I talk to my parents. I'm not really sure what to do about it anymore. I'm not a mean person to everyone, but only my parents for some reason. I always back talk and all this crap, but I just can't control myself. It's like.. It's not me. Plus, they always talk about "foster care" or having me life with someone else because how I am and I really don't want to... What do I do? I'm not getting meds, so please don't say get meds (I also can't talk to any counselors or anything). I just hate being a mean person but I don't know what to do. I want to try to help myself.
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I think you should talk to your parents about this. Let them know that you don't want to talk back to them like you do. This might help them to handle when you aren't being the nicest to them, and their feelings might be a little less hurt if they knew that you really do care about them, but don't always show it.
Also, when you feel that you are starting to get out of control, take a step back and cool off. Its better for you to storm off and explain yourself later than to stay and say something hurtful you'll regret later.
Just remember, your parents love you and I highly doubt that they would actually send you to foster care. If so, I think your parents have some of their own issues to work out. Be open with them about your feelings and don't be afraid to take a break from their company every once in a while when you cant handle yourself. The fact that you realize what you're doing and want to change it shows that you really are a good person; we all have our "mean" moments, you just need to learn to control them and let the nice person that I'm sure you can be shine.
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