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I'm falling for my best friend.
Hello, I'm coming to you guys for advice as I believe that I am falling for my best friend. I am 18, female. He is 19.. obviously male. Last night, I had a party, it was gonna be a bunch of people but I decided I didn't want it to be crazy so I just invited over a few of my girlfriends. I told my guy friend that he could come over but he would be the only guy unless one of my girlfriend's boyfriend came over. He said it didn't matter if he would be the only guy so he came over. He wound up staying the night. We were watching a movie in my living room when he started to fall asleep. I wasn't sleepy, yet so I stayed on the same couch as him. I wound up falling asleep on the same couch as him anyway. We both woke up a lot through the night because it was uncomfortable but neither of us moved to the floor or the other couch. However, it wasn't next to each other on the couch, he was on one side and I was on the other, our legs met in the middle of the couch. I'm not sure if that means that he is just that comfortable with me as friends of if he may want to be with me, too. Everyone at my party was saying that we just need to get together already. We were near each other all night. I was sitting on my freezer, I went into my house to get something and I came back out, he took my spot on the freezer but he moved everything that was on his other side of the freezer and let me sit on the freezer next to him. Anyway, I know it isn't a lot to go off of but I was just wondering your thoughts. Do you think something is there or are we just best friends? Thanks!
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It does seem like he is interested in you as more than a friend. I mean you don't normally spend a lot of time around a girl when you don't like her, I mean there were other girls there too. So unless he sees you as a really, really good friend, then I think he is at least becoming interested in you.
Anyways, I'd talk to him about it. Say something similar to I'm starting to have feelings for you, I was wondering if you were starting to see me that way too.
Good luck!
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He could at any point he woke up just say, well I better go home and leave. But he didn't. Maybe too sleepy or just comfortable around you. If he makes space for you to sit next to him, he wants you to be near him, something both guys and girls do when they are very interested in someone. You just might have a guy there who is very polite and will leave it up to the lady to make the first move when she is ready. So just tell him that you are beginning to have other feelings for him beyond friendship and wondered if he has felt the same way. If he says yes, then ask why he hasnt said anything or made any move to kiss you.
Let him know you've wondered what a kiss with him would be like and then kiss him. If he says he feels like you are just a good friend. Ask why he likes hanging with you instead of looking for a girl he is romantically attracted to. It may be that he is attracted that way and doesnt realize it. I doubt he will say he is not attracted to you that way. Good luck
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