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Wow i need to tell a girl how i feel about her.
Wassup? I'm 16/m and I have to tell a g at my school how I really feel about her. I love her. For 2 years. Nobody else. Just her. I love everything about her. She's perfect. We're pretty good friends and I jst don't wanna stay friends and I gotta get this foshiznt off my chest. How do I tell her wiout sounding weird?
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I think that you should just tell her. You could do it when you know that she is alone and text her. Just say that u like her and you want to know if she would like to go on a date some time soon like to a movie or something in public so you both might feel more comfortable. Most girls like a guy better when they are honest. Dont actually tell her that you are madly in love with her though.
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Maybe find a time when she isn't around her friends or go up and ask if he can talk to her.
Then tell her that you have feelings for her. Don't say you love her though, that would most likely just freak her out. Just tell her you like her and you wanted to know if she wanted to go out sometime.
If she agrees, then take her to a movie or bowling..or whatever is in your area.
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You say you are already really good friends. So I assume that mean you haven't really dated her. Just hanging out together at school?
Well, first thing is to ask her if she'd like to go out with you. Are there any school dances you can invite her to? It will not be weird or strange to her to have some one she already knows, ask her to date him. It would be weirder to have a guy at school she doesnt know except that he's in a class with her to all of a sudden ask her to go out.
Please refrain from saying to her "I love you" and then asking her out. Frankly, though many girls dream of the day that she falls in love and a man professes his love to her, it's certainly not as a teenager. You have lots of life yet to live and may meet another girl in the future whom you fall in love with each other. Even older woman who meet a man who professes he loves her too early on in a dating relationship get scared because he comes across as needy and we dont like that. Had it happen to me twice.
Just enjoy dating her and giving her kisses and hugs and never pressure her for more. It is okay if you both are ready for that but talk about it and let her know you will wait until the day she is ready. Meanwhile, enjoy normal dating for teens. You are young and have much time ahead of you. No reason to rush it more. Keep your feelings to yourself for now.
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Learning to express yourself like an intelligent human being would be a start.
I mean, you left out the U in just. Really? Was the U too hard? I don't get it.
Don't confess. It'll just get awkward. You think she's perfect, no one is perfect. You're a pretty typical teen who's crushed on a girl and built up this awesome image of who she is that probably only vaguely resembles who she actually is as a person. You know, in real life.
Go talk to her. Ask her about herself. Have a conversation. Ask her out to dinner. You don't need to get anything off your chest you need to stop thinking about liking a girl and go out and actually like her in person. Tell her she's cute, ask her out on a date, flirt like the awkward teenager you are and hope she finds you adorable as opposed to annoying.
If she doesn't, move on and flirt with someone else. You're young, it's not that big a deal.
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