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feeling pushed away
Hey, my boyfriend has been acting distant, doesn't walk next to me in the street, walks ahead.. Stopped sitting next to me at his mams & doesn't go down on me anymore when we are fooling around,, he's also saying he is going to make a lovely night for me but always forgets or gets his friends to come over, he said he wanted to go to the fair with just me & him like a date got me all excited then asked two of his friends to come.. I keep getting angry & going in a huff with him,, I feel like he's pushing me away but he says he loves me more than life itself, we've been together for a year now, got a little girl & moving in together, even talking about getting engaged, he used to be all over me & suddenly changed, we broke up for a few months, isn't our love supposed to be more intense & erotic rather than distant from eachother? I don't know what to do or say anymore I'm scared incase am being silly & just pushing him away.. Please help I don't want to lose him
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It seems normal to have this kind of thing happen in a relationship when you've been together for awhile.
If my boyfriend started doing those things too, I'd start getting frustrated as well.
You should sit down and talk to him. Don't sit him down and start listing off everything he is doing wrong though, because that will push him away. Just tell him you need to talk to him, get everything off your chest and you just want some things to be different. Go one by one. I'd start with him forgetting about him making a lovely night for you and then forgetting. Maybe say you feel like he is pushing you away because of this and then the little things like walking next to you, ect.
Tell him if you don't talk all this out, it's going to bother you.
So let him be honest with you and try to work through the problems. Keeping quiet and letting yourself get bitter over it won't help. But don't argue with him. If he has anything to say about you, let him. I mean nobody is perfect and maybe you do things that bother him too. So just have a time to sit down and let everything out with no fighting.
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