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Does he like me back? Should I approach him?
There's this guy at my job I'm attracted to. I only worked with him once and throughout the whole day he kept asking me if I was ok and he offered me food a few times. He said he had to make sure I was ok. Then later on in the day when he saw me eating he said if i knew you wanted something I would have got it for you. After that day I only see him once in awhile but hes always with his friends. One day out side he did reach out and touch my arm and said hi to me with a smile. I think he likes me but Im not sure what should I do? Should I approach him and talk to him more?
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Thats an awkward way for a guy to say something to talk to a girl he's interested in...I mean asking all day nothing other than, Are you ok? But guys don't have a clue when it comes to how to talk to females. I would have wondered if I looked kinda pale or sick if I was asked that too many times. LOL He did try to share some food or snacks with you. I don't know what you replied or if you ate or not. From what you say about eating later, i assume you didnt accept the food offered earlier. Even if you really didn't want it, but wanted to encourage him to pursue you, then you could've said something to encourage him like, "Oh how sweet of you to want to share your food with me. I truly am not hungry right now but it's certainly looks great, I'd wouldn't mind tasting a bite." Later when he saw you eat and made his comment he would have got that for you..."Really, my goodness I could become very spoiled rotten having someone do special things like that for me." What did you say to him when he touched your arm outside to gain your attention to say Hi. He is showing all this interest and in his mind these are strong enough clues to let you know he likes you. The fact this is so on your mind that you would write about it shows you have already picked up on it, you just wanted someone else to agree with you. Is there a new restaurant you'd like to check out, a movie you'd like to go see, some community event or fair you'd like to attend. Think of something to invite him to go with you to. Next time you run into him, just go up and ask, "There's a movie I'd like to go see, it come's out on Friday and my girlfriend can't go and I hate going alone, Thats no fun. You are such a fun nice friendly person, I just thought to ask you if you'd like to see ...."
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