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Is it normal to be protective over your breasts?
So I work at grocery store. There's this sweet man with special needs that always come in, and I always smile and say hi. One day he came up to me and said "HEY, you're the friendly lady!" I laughed and said "Yep, that's me!" so he goes to give me a hug, and his hand swipes my boob in the process. Totally innocent, it was an accident. But as soon as his hand came in contact with my boob, all the hairs on my neck stood on end and I could feel a surge of adrenaline, and my eyes widened. I knew I wasn't in any danger, but my body just did that on its own! Another instance is when a coworker wanted to get a closer look at my name tag, and his hand bumped my boob. Again, a total accident, but the same thing happened. Just a quick surge of terror. Why is that? Is this normal? Has this happened to anyone else? THANKS<3
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That sounds more like excitement than terror, but I'm not in your head so who knows.
Either way it's normal. People intruding on your personal space can be unsettling whether good or bad, accidental or on purpose. You might find that you date a guy and he touches those areas on purpose and you feel the exact same way and realize that it's just physical excitement. It could be both. A mixture of the realization that you want someone to touch your breasts and the realization that the person who is touching your breasts you really don't want touching your breasts. Hence it's exciting and uncomfortable at the same time.
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I would say yes it is very normal. A woman's breasts are a very intimate part of her body more so than her Butt. Every one has a Butt but only women have breasts and they are very much a sexual object for the opposite sex even though they are not truly apart of your sexual or reproductive system.
A woman's Breasts are part of the intimacy of sex but play no part in the actual reproduction until after the birth of a child. It is because of the part a women's breasts play both in the intimacy of sex and the part after a child is born is why you and other woman are so protective of them.
A women's Breast are also a part of her sexual image just as a mans penis and testicles are. So yes It is not abnormal for you or any women to be guarded when someone accidentally touches them. They are not to be touched without consent even accidentally as your Breast are very much a part of who you are and how you identify yourself.
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