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Im a 14 yearold boy and desperate for sex
Hi im a 14 yr old boy in london and i am desperate fir sex. I masturbate often and have even gone onto websites to try and get it. If not though i would want to be able to use some kind if pocket pussy or but because i have parents i wiuldnt be able to purchase it without them knowing please help
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Lets not worry about the age of consent laws and legalities for the moment. Lets talk about what you wrote. "i'm a 14 yr old boy in london and i am desperate fir sex. I masturbate often."
This makes you a normal 14 year old boy who is suffering from the perils of puberty. Puberty has all these new hormones coursing through your body and your body wants sexual relief. This is normal, so is masturbation to relieve this problem.
Sex with a willing young lady at this time might be possible though it is wrong for her as her body is not yet ready for sex. Sure she may look like a women but her sexual parts are still developing and sex now would be very painful for her and maybe impossible if you have an overly large penis.
Then of course there is always the chance of her getting pregnant. Not knowing the laws in England I am not aware of what birth control is available to 14 year olds so abstinence is the best advice to offer for now.
Masturbation for a 14 year old is normal as long as it does not become an all encompassing activity. It is not unusual for a 14 year old male to masturbate 4 times a day. It is safe, it is pleasant and most of all you cant become a father from masturbation at 14 years of age.
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I'm confused as to what you want help with? Do you want us to help you fight off this sex obsession? Or is it that you want us to point you in the direction where you can get sex?
In this country, its illegal to have sex over 16-as I'm sure you know 16 is the legal age of consent.
Now, no one on here will give you any websites or whatever for a teenage boy to get sex from.
When growing up, it has been scientifically proven that girls mature earlier than boys do. So whilst you want sex, a girl of your age is looking for a proper relationship.
The only way a teenage boy who is also underage can have sex is if her were in a relationship. And even then it's illegal.
Its also very different, watching sex to actually having it. It's also a big emotional commitment that I feel many people are not prepared for.
If I were you I'd just wait until you find the right girl who would like a relationship and possibly more.
Obviously, theres huge pressure on teenage boys in our society for them to lose their virginity as early as possible. And, you do get 11 year olds on this site claiming they have. But what people say and what people actually mean are very different things.
I think your desperate for pleasure not for sex itself. As sex, like I said, is a whole new emotional level of a relationship. And the thing is, if it isn't meaningful, then half an hour later you'll be like 'what was the point in that'.
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