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How to understand the feelings of a girl.?
Hi, I'm 23 years old guy. Since last couple of days I'm hanging out and drinking with one of my female friend. Actually we are very good friend of each other but we've showed each other our feelings through different conducts for example touching each other with the means of love, helping and sincerity. However last time when we were having wine , she literally showed me that she likes me a lot by her words and ended up with a kiss. M trying to call and text her but she is not answering and no response at all. This triggers a confusion in my mind that why she is doing that ..? I don't understand is she ignoring or showing that she's not desperate or what.? I love her truly but I don't know what should be the best way clear this trouble .? Please help me with ur experience.
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Maybe it was the wine that helped her to get relaxed and beyond her un-comfortableness and do something she felt rash like kissing you which she might not have done if she was more sober. I think she may plain and simple embarrassed. Do you have a way to contact her in person? text and online and calls are not as personal as face to face where she can have the reassurances of the looks in your eyes, facial expressions and body expressions. But don't rely on her ability to read those too well. My kids are in this age bracket and have had trouble too picking up on body language and the look in a persons eyes..it comes with the technology age, but it is a very helpful ability to have. If you can't seem to catch her in person, send a card to her in the mail in which you pour out your feelings after saying you tried to catch her in person but it was important to you that she know how you felt about her. I have a daughter 24, who she and her boyfriend are dancing around the issue of coming out and saying i love you and want us to be a couple even tho they enjoy each other and are sexually compatible they still feel awkward saying anything and she is happy and unhappy at the same time because shes glad she met him but not secure that he may be around in the future cus he doesnt feel deeply enough. Its possible your girl is feeling some of the same. Oh and you could try sending flowers with a notecard asking to meet her or have her contact you.
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