Okay so my boyfriend and I were alone one day and I ended up giving him a hand job but i'm not sure if he pre ejaculated or actually ejaculated but anyways when we were done he had to fix himself up and then he decided to put his finger down in my area for a while but i'm concerned if i could be pregnant i missed my period but i don't have a regular period anyways can someone PLEASE help and if it helps he didn't take that long to change from his area to mine
Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday May 28 2013, 5:25 pm: Yes he could easily have had some live sperm on his hand if he touched himself afterwards, no matter if precum or after ejaculating. Both will have sperm in it. When I was young I didn't have regular periods either. That is not necessarily a sign that you are pregnant. Only way to find out is with a test. Get it at the pharmacist or from planned parenthood.
If you do not plan to have full on sex for a while and don't want to go for contraception, at least have some spermacide on hand for now like one uses with a diaphragm. But the safest thing to do is get in to see someone about getting contraception.
Please do read up on it online. The ones with hormones have lots of side effects. Many girls have written on line to tell their stories. Unfortunately those are the ones most widely prescribed by Drs. Read up on it and check out the copper IUD. Thats the safest thing in my experience and most carefree, you dont have to remember to take anything, no side effects, it is good for 5+ yrs and after removal, you can get
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