Hey! I need some help.
I have this guy friend I know for like a month and a bit more? And well earlier we used to talk like everyday! Even with out shitty time zones he talked! I'm in Germany and he's in America and we used to Skype a lot! And he was so cute to me and told me he misses me when I was offline. But now...we don't talk as much :( and when I ask him we should skype he only says 'Yeah we should!' 'yeah it's been too long!' And in the end he doesn't skype me -.- Am I annoying him?
And he doesn't spam me anymore and doesn't tell me he misses me..he also sometimes ignores my snapchats :( what should I do? Should I talk with him about this? Thanks! x
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Trauma answered Tuesday May 21 2013, 8:50 am: Sorry for the delayed response. I'm not quite sure what exactly your relationship was like, whether it was purely friendly, or with feelings involved, so it's really tough to say what might be going on. In most relationships, people tend to go through the "puppy love" phase, where they're infatuated with the other person, want to talk to them/be around them all the time, but at some point, this wears off and things usually settle down. That could be what's going on in this situation. But, there could also be many other reasons for your friend's strange behavior, so it's hard to speculate.
I would definitely recommend you talk to him about it. Just be straight-forward, tell him you've noticed you guys haven't been talking as much lately, and you want to know if you've annoyed him or offended him in some way. [ Trauma's advice column | Ask Trauma A Question ]
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