i am a virgin . i and my boy friend were fooling around . he was naked but i was having my panties . later i found that my panty was a little wet because of his pre ejaculation . but there was no direct contact . can i get pregnant ? usually my periods are always late by 3 or 4 days . this month i was supposed to get them on 8th may but i dint get them yet . plz help me . i am tensed
Next; it is possible to become pregnant if a boys semen lands on you but not inside you. It is rare and depends on many different things being in alignment.
1. How close was the semen to the opening of your vagina? The further away the less likely you are to be pregnant.
2. You have to ovulating at the time this happened. Meaning an egg has been ejected from your ovaries and is in the three day window of fertility to be fertilized. In 80% of women this occurs during the middle 14 days of their periods.
3. The fact that the semen had to swim through your panties did limit the amount that got through and may have weakened them a bit.
As I said it is rare but possible you could have gotten pregnant. Most likely though your stressed out about being pregnant. A home pregnancy test will either prove or disprove a pregnancy. Most likely it will disprove it and you will eliminate your stress. You may not get this months period but your next will come on schedule.
If you are over 14 years of age there is a law called HIPPA, which is a Federal Law. This law gives anyone 14 and older total medical confidentiality over their reproductive system.
Meaning you can make appoints, see doctors, ask questions and be treated for any condition related to your reproductive system without parental knowledge.
Congress passed this law not to promote sex in young people but to promote sexual health so that young people would seek medical treatment when needed. Information regarding these visits cannot be released and requires your expressed written permission to be released to anyone including your parents. Without it doctors can say nothing to anyone.
Under this law you can also request birth control pills. I suggest since you are experimenting with sex in this manner that you do so. Birth control pills will also regulate your period for you.
One last thing about HIPPA. Mom can still force you to see a doctor though if she requests any type of female exam all you need say is; "I invoke my rights under HIPPA." At this point mom, if she is in the exam room, will be asked to wait in the waiting room. You can at this point stop the exam or complete it confident that none of this will be available to mom with out your consent.
This law is not greatly known by the young people it affects. I tell you this for I would tell my own granddaughter; not to promote promiscuity but it is your right to know it. Also to hopefully reduce the stress you have placed on yourself. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
subhasree answered Friday May 17 2013, 2:25 pm: it is possible to get pregnant even without direct contact since clothes are porous enough for sperm cells to pass through...however it depends on many factors like how much of pre ejaculation was there, was it near your entrance or not. if it was, and since you are already late in periods, please try out a pregnancy test at home as soon as possible . it might not be too late to abort. good luck. [ subhasree's advice column | Ask subhasree A Question ]
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