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I dont know what to do!
Okay, so I am 14 & a female. I have a really big crush on this kid in my grade. I don't know what to do because I also have a boyfriend. We have been dating for about 5-6 months, but the problem with him is that I don't get to see him that much and when I do which only is on the weekends t is really awkward but I still like him a lot but I feel bad and dont know what to do should I stay with him? are tell my crush how I feel? Pleasee help!
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If your boyfriend is a good boyfriend who treats you right, then stay with him because you said you still like him.
It is natural to have crushes on other guys but it's better to not act on them.
The guys that flirt with a lot of girls can draw attention. He's most likely the type of guy who likes attention from girls. So he's probably not the type of guy you'd want to date. They're cute and charming but they'll be that way when they're with you, flirting with other girls.
You have different options..
You can leave your boyfriend, for a guy who flirts with you and every other girl and not even knowing if he has feelings for you.
Or you can stay with your boyfriend and move on from this other guy.
You don't need to see your boyfriend every day to have a good relationship. As long as he treats you right, it's fine.
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Your additional info is helpful. If a guy flirts with one girl, he finds her attractive. If a guy flirts with all girls it s 2 possibilities,
1. He is into himself and craves adoration from a group of females and will be upset if he doesn't get that. He is likely incapable of giving attention to a female.
2. Anything with boobs and a vagina will do for him, she can even wear a bag over her head. He likely does not want a relationship of any depth with any girl, just the sex. He does not need to get to know the girl inside for that.
There's something about the strutting handsome flirty guy that will catch the attention of Most Females! But that does not mean that he will make a good friend, boyfriend, lover, or husband someday. Best to learn that now at this age rather than when married with kids and husband sleeps around with many women.
So what do you do? It's okay to notice those crush feelings inside you. But it's probably against your better judgement to act on them.
The boyfriend of 6 months, is not in any of your classes or not in your school I am guessing if you dont see him at all during the week. Spend your time focusing on your friends during the week. And enjoy the good boyfriend on the weekends.
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