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The girl i like and her response...
I am a coward to start it off, and i like this girl, as a person like this i wanted to get closer with her. So "i" asked her out... well i didn't, but i told a friend of mine to ask her(i know im stupid and a coward for doing this, please dont insult me). She said she wants to...but... as a immature class we have, she feels pretty uncomfortable, so i asked her in person when shes free, and she said not this weekend(because of a family reunion) but probably next weekend. Its really awkward in class cause we just stare at each other. Her friends told me that she really likes me, but its kinda awkward. On monday, im going to ask her if she wants to go to a restaurant(nothing fancy.). Is there anything else i should try say, or am i doing something wrong?
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It's usually always awkward in the beginning. I think asking her out would be a good idea and a nice way to get to know her better.
I don't think you're doing anything wrong so just be brave and I'm sure she likes you so you're good.
About the awkwardness, don't sweat it. It's really not a big deal and once you get to know her better, the awkwardness will go away. So don't think too into that.
Just enjoy her company and have fun!
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Well, first I will start off saying that YOU are NOT a coward! Every guy/girl gets that shy feeling once in a while. So you are OK. The next thing I will say is, yes, I think you should ask her out on that date. But tell her how you feel first...and then ask if she feels the same way. Make her feel special and when she talks, LISTEN!
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When you ask her to eat out and she answers yes, then naturally, next you would need to know what kind of foods she likes and if she has any food allergies. Don't know if you're driving age or younger, but either way, see if she wants to eat in, or out. What I mean is lets say you go to taco time or a subway sandwich. If they have outdoor seating, that's nice but if there is a park nearby or river, lake, beach where you can drive or ride bikes to, that's even more special.
I think a friendship with her will grow much easier if anything you have to say to her doesnt feel so scary and awkward for you each time you want to say something. Hopefully you outgrow the awkward stage as you become comfortable with her. You're not doing anything wrong. There's a period of learning for any thing new you try, including dating. You will find that you get better and better at it as time goes on and you don't give up.
Good luck
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