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Can I ever be open about THIS side of my personality?


Question Posted Monday May 6 2013, 4:30 pm

Hello! I am 14/f and I am rather interested in 18th and 19th century Europe. However, I am VERY interested in erotica from those times (like literature). When u hear the word erotica, all you really think of is probably smut, though, I don't read that, and I don't just read 18th century French erotica novels to get off by it. I see it as absolute art! I'd like to be more open about this type of subject, but I'm somewhat afraid of being ostracized. I'm guessing no one will understand I'm interested in such great art, and its really disappointing. So ... Do you believe it's okay for me to be awfully interested in such a subject? Thanks!

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Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday May 7 2013, 1:59 am:
Anyone who is a literary works fan or English teachers will understand an appreciation for a particular writer or a period of literary art. There is nothing wrong with it. You need to see about joining some groups who are interested in the same. They may not be local but surely a search on the web could produce other people with the same reading interest/hobby. It would be great to have others to talk to about that subject. If you can't find others with the same interest, ask an English teacher and explain it exactly as you did to me. Remember the teacher is an adult and less likely to react as you believe your peers might.

Actually,I am wondering what you think your peers might find wrong with your particular interest in this art? I for one love the older paintings of nudes because they were more realistic as to what a real woman looked like. As I see it, right now you are worried about a reaction that you may not even get.

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