also, someone said to use the "positives" of this experience and mentioned the following
-they said seeing the inside of a real jail would actually be a good experience for my daughter
-said my wife can use it as a learning experience for herself as well. Also, they said her being in jail will give her more credibility when talking about the consequences of bad choices. Well that is an interesting way of seeing it
what do you think of these
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? Rena-Chan answered Saturday May 18 2013, 10:34 pm: I believe whoever said that made very good and strong points, and I strongly agree with him/her. It'll be a good learning experience for both your wife and daughter. Everyone makes mistakes, and that is how one learns, as well as seeing these consequences, can your daughter also learn. I suggest, if you have not yet, and if your daughter is willing to do so, to have her see her mother. The sooner she begins to understand, the better off she'll be. At least that's what I believe as well, considering as I have told you before, both my parents went to jail, and because of their mistakes, I learned what not to do and I live a calm and happy crime free life [ Rena-Chan's advice column | Ask Rena-Chan A Question ]
lightoftruth answered Monday May 6 2013, 5:18 pm: You can look at the positive side of pretty much any situation. That's the best thing to do in times like these.
Seeing the inside of a jail could be a good experience for your daughter. At least she would know that she doesn't want to end up there.
And of course this is a learning experience for your wife. Every body has gone through hard times. If someone is going through a similar situation, your wife will be able to really understand and really be a help to someone. I also see that as an interesting way of looking at this. [ lightoftruth's advice column | Ask lightoftruth A Question ]
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