I have a crush on a guy who's dating my best friend.
Question Posted Monday May 6 2013, 1:30 am
Ugh! I-I I think I love him. He asked out my best friend a few days ago and they don't even act serious. They run around chasing eachother like little kids. I told him what I felt about him and he gave me a weird look. I am now embarrased and heartbroken. What should I do?
lightoftruth answered Monday May 6 2013, 5:30 pm: My advice to to move on.
Moving on is hard, it will take time. It really depends on the person but it could take weeks, months, and sometimes years. But if you try hard enough, it won't take that long. Those are the people who refuse to let go.
Since he likes your best friend, it would be wrong to interfere.
You start over by going out with other friends, don't talk to him anymore, and start doing new things.
Don't sit around and cry over it. I mean you can, but not for long. Don't say, "I'm never going to get over him." Because you will become the person who never lets go.
I mean you have other options but none of them look good.
Wait around for them to break up, and maybe he'll like you..but will your friend be ok with it?
Interfere with their relationship causing your friend to resent you.
Then there is move on, the other ones will most likely just break your heart again. [ lightoftruth's advice column | Ask lightoftruth A Question ]
soph0900 answered Monday May 6 2013, 5:10 pm: I'm sorry, but I think you will have to move on.
Trying to win his affection will only hurt your friend, and you dont want to lose a friend over a guy!
That weird look may have been a rejection. Just, try as best you can to move on because its not worth all the drama.
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