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i want to but im scared!!!


Question Posted Sunday May 5 2013, 4:10 pm

So i really like this girl,and i really want to ask her out. Shes my friend and sometimes it seems like she likes me, but other times it seems like shes just avoiding me or ignoring me. But i still really want to ask her out, but im scared. I dont want to choke or seem like a retard, i want to seem confident. Can you please help me??

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lightoftruth answered Sunday May 5 2013, 6:14 pm:
You have to remember that rejection hurts. There is nothing you can do to really change that.
All you have to know is that the worst she could say is no. Most likely, she isn't going to hit you or start calling you names. If she did something ridiculous, I would be questioning why you even liked her.
So the worst is no and the best is yes.

You have to build confidence in yourself. You have to start believing you are a great guy and she'd be lucky to be with you. You don't only want to seem confident, you want to be confident.
Just remember that if you don't ask her out, someone else might or you'll just never know if she felt the same.

Once you've built your confidence and believe that you are ready to ask her out. You find her, not when she's with all her friends. If she's with her friends often, then ask if you can talk to her for a second. Then just ask her out.

Almost everyone goes through this, you'll be fine.

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avalomid120 answered Sunday May 5 2013, 5:52 pm:
just go up to her and ask her.Find out her feeling about you.She will either answer you yes or no.

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