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Trying to squirt, what am I doing wrong?
I am a 32 yr old female who has always had very intense orgasms. I have recently become interested in the idea of squirting and have tried with much advice to do this but never successful. I have very good vaginal muscles and my partner and I have notice that during orgasm my vaginal walls clinch very hard. I can however push just as hard when this happens at will, my body naturally tightens though. I have on many occasions pushed rather than clinched and still nothing. I always feel the urge to pee and I always have to go afterwards. The orgasms are always very intense. What should I do differently?
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In my psychology of women class i actually learned last year that not every women has the ability to squirt. Everyone is different. .. so maybe you arent doing anything wrong?
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Hi there. A woman may well find herself very wet during and after climax. But let's cut to the chase. If by any chance you're judging your performance against certain adult/pornographic scenes and stills...it's 'the urban myth'...sorry but it's true. Research further if you wish, but you'll find the only organ in a womans body capable of releasing anything in the quantities seen in adult/porn scenes is the bladder. The actress/model drinks an awful lot of usually sweet sugary drinks and then water, and you've probably guessed now what they're actually doing. It might indeed be very pleasurable if that's your thing. But I think you should be clear about what actually is going to 'come out'. Doing it while you genuinely climax might be tricky, because of the 'push vs. pull' and tense/release thing you mention. But again, the accompanying (or indeed any) climax in porn isn't (usually) the real thing either. Which is surely why many frustrated teenaged girls write in to say their orgasms are a bit of a let down, and how can they do it better? Bottom line is, it's the scene director and the model's 'money shot' but it's not going to happen naturally. And it's plain old pee, not some mysterious fluid. There's not actually anything in our bodies that's a 'mystery' to medical science. Have fun...but keep it real!
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Squirting or gushing is the female ejaculation. We can do it more often than men and some can do it with more volumn than men. I have heard that not all woman end up able to do it.
But if you feel the urge to pee, you're almost there.
G spot is a collection of nerves on the front wall of the vagina. By doing a “come here” motion with your finger, 2-3 inches inside, you stimulate the area.
I suggest you empty your bladder before you go for it. Pee doesn't build up that fast. That way you can be assured that when you when the urge to pee to just let go. Once you let go the orgasm can then continue to grow. I will range anywhere from dribbling drops to maybe a cup of liquid. Although it comes out the same place as pee it isn't pee. It has been tested by scientists or whoe-ever does those tests. The G spot is between the vaginal wall and your bladder and thats why you feel an urge to pee. The good feeling should build until once its intense it feels like an urge to pee. Have a folded towel on the bed so you also dont hold back for fear of wetting the bed. There's a young gal who does sex plus videos for young folk and I love one she did on the g spot. She made a clay doh model of the females organs so you get an idea in 3d of what your dealing with. You can find her on youtube, then look up Lacigreen and then the G-spot video.
BTW, men have a g spot too. Their prostrate is their g spot. About 3 inches inside his anus if you feel for the prostrate, its about walnut sized. Massaging it helps him have greater orgasms and if done on a regular habit, should ensure he has less likihood of prostrate problems when he gets older.
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