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im confused!!...... sould i or not?
Hi....* so I really like this guy... And we visit their farm often coz... My uncle live on their farm.... He's really sexy! * Taned body!* * choclate brown hair...* * 6-pack and beatifull eyes!* he kinda sorta know I like him and I don't know if he like me 2!* he touched me once. I really wanna have sex with him...* but I want to show him trough body language? Any help plzzZ?
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You won't get a guy through body language unless you are completely upfront about it. You can't hint at a guy at all because they might be mislead, that's why there is a thing called talking.
Try talking to him first and becoming his friend. You don't want to have sex with a guy you barely know.
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Just because someone looks at you a lot doesnt mean that they like you. It's a possible indicator but it's not enough information. I had someone stare at me like that. Ends up once I start conversation with the guy, he was staring because I looking like a body double for his cousin. It wasn't cus he wanted to date me. Another time, I was being stared at by a nerdy ugly guy at friends church, he finally told me he liked the song I played on guitar and would like to play guitar with me. I assumed he was just looking for a friend. I could handle him as a friend but I was not attracted to him sexually. Long story short, he took me to his house but parents were gone and he made sexual moves for me. I was angry because he had not been upfront with me letting me know that he found me sexually attractive and wanted to do it with me.
You will need to learn how to communicate well with people, especially guys so there is no assumimg or guessing what they are thinking or planning and to what degree they have interest in you. Guys can and will have female friends but not want to have sex with them. It doesn't mean they are gay. Some guys make friends easier with females even if they're straight and some females like myself make friends easier with guys.
You can't know any of this unless you talk to him. If you can't even do that, you aren't ready to have sex. Why? Because the sexual act between two consenting people involves talking. Movies don't show that very well. You need to be letting him know if something is painful, or pleasurable..."keep doing the same thing, don;t change" Or here's an example of him needing to communicate, You are giving a blow job. Each guy is different in what he likes that makes a bj work for him. YOU are not supposed to be left guessing what to do. He needs to be able to say things like "Thats great. Could you do that again, the flicking back and forth of your tongue? That drives me wild." Once you have become lovers and are very familiar with each other, then you can use body language to tell him you want him. But not now!
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