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Love: is there any way I can make a guy like me? If so, how?
I've liked his guy for 4 years now. We were always friends but not close friends. This year has probably been the closest we've ever been. But last year we almost dated but his ex got in the way. And this year I told him that we need to talk about us. He told me that he just wants to be friends. And I was just wondering, is there any way I can make a guy like me? If so, how?
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There is no way to make a guy like you.
Since he has been interested in you before, it wouldn't be too hard to catch his attention though. It will be a bit harder since he's not interested right now.
What you should do is improve yourself. Not just for a guy, but for you.
Make yourself feel better by doing better in school, by doing new things, new hobbies. You will much happier and happier girls attract guys.
Go out with your friends and look pretty.
If you make yourself happy, whether or not this guys wants you, someone will.
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I believe you are able to answer that question on your own and already know the answer. But just for fun, lets reverse the situation. Let's pretend there is a guy (not your guy, some other guy) who has liked you for quite some time. You know because people have told you and he has tried talking to you but he is really shy and stammers a lot, and acts real nervous and is clumsy and dresses like and looks like a nerd. Because you're polite, you've been nice and talked to him, he's gotten braver and asked you out but you said you just want to be friends. He is now asking everyone if they can show him how he can make you like him? Next, he asks you...is there any way I could make you like me? What are you going to answer him with?
Whatever your answer to him is, will be the same answer for yourself with the guy you really like.
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