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Is it okay to watch porn at the age of 14?


Question Posted Tuesday April 16 2013, 7:30 pm

I was wondering of it's okay to watch porn at my age. I really like it, and all. Yet sometimes I can't stop watching it and fingering myself.

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kittenlover2000 answered Wednesday April 17 2013, 10:33 am:
Well, its very young, but then sex is in the media everywhere these days, so its only normal to be curious, and I guess porn watching would be the next step.
I'd try to stop if I were you. The reason why porn sites are for over 18's-one of the many reasons, is because by that age your deemed mentaly responsible for what you see. So, you'll understand that what the people in the porn video are doing is just a business-and they don't love each other like a proper couple does. Just like a teacher or a shop assistant, that is there job-once the cameras stop, they stop.
By 18 your deemed by the law to be able to understand this and kind of watch it but mentally distatch it from reality-with an understanding that no sex you'll have in your life is like that-its for entertainment only.

So I think you should cut down what you watch but slowly so its not a shock. If you just cant get over that desire, then try eating foods to decrease your sex drive. I mean, its good you're questioning what you are doing, but when you look back how young 14 actually is, you'll realise perhaps it wasn't the best thing to do.

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solidadvice4teens answered Wednesday April 17 2013, 1:16 am:
It won't psychologically scar you permanently. However, it is made for adult audiences and you should try to stop.

Being curious about it and sex is normal but bear in mind these are actors (term applied loosely) and this isn't an accurate reflection of a real sexual relationship. A lot of those people in the film have bad educations, may be on drugs, or just making bad life choices.

No doubt your classmates have turned to this out of curiosity and being turned on by it or stimulating yourself is fine as that's more or less what it's designed to do--turn people on by watching it.

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