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how can i be " more of an interesting girlfriend "
Alright so im 14 years old and in my relationship its getting pretty BORING. I love my boyfriend sooo much but we dont talk on the phone or hang out. I want to be more fun. We only see each other in school. In between classes. I try my very but i dont think thats even good enough. Im flirting with him and messing around with him but what else could i do???? Somebody please help. Its important and i dont want to end our relationship but hes like my first love actually (:
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A school relationship will not work if you do not see each other outside if school.
Being a good couple means enjoying each others company, Even when you do nothing at all.
My husband and I are in our late 20's, We love hiking, Movies, Grabbing a quick lunch and hanging out at the beach, malls etc. Most of all though, We can sit and do nothing at all and sometimes those are the best moments.Being a good partner is about understanding one another, Respect, Trust and Honesty.
To be quite honest, You are young. At fourteen no bou wants to settle down and get serious, Outside of school or not..
You need to be realistic.
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You already know how to solve this problem. Hang out with him outside of school. Go out and do something fun. Go out to eat, you don't have to do anything fancy, just getting some food, hanging out, and talking.
Go bowling, go to the movies, go rollerskating/ice skating, picnic, play board games, go for a walk, ect.
You can call him once in awhile too.
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Start seeing one another outside of school or this flat out will not work. It's not a functioning relationship as it is. Start going to movies, bowling, events, anything or hanging out at each of your houses. That will make all the difference.
As far as being interesting goes you are interesting to him or he wouldn't want a relationship or be trying for one. Continue to be you and don't second guess yourself there. You just need more face time and a lot more. I have no idea why you don't hang out already. You have to solve this.
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