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I feel like my boyfriend likes my best friend and she likes him.
Okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 months or so now, and my best friend was there the first night I met him. I sound so stupid but I feel like he looked at her instead of me the first night we met. I've confronted him on this and he says he wanted me that night, it was the first night we kissed too. We started a relationship about 3 weeks later, she said she was happy for us and seemed happy. We hang out together, Me, My boyfriend, Her, she's my best friend and everything and i trust her i just feel like whenever i want to spend time with him, she always has to be there, I feel so stupid when i ask my boyfriend about this. When me and my boyfriend started going out she messaged him just jokingly about me and him and they put a lot kisses to eachother...I just thought it was friendly at first now it sticks at the back of my mind all the time, they always talk, I dont like it and i've told my boyfriend that, and tried to confront my best friend but she just gets pissed and says it doesn't mean anything. Can anybody give me advice? I really do love this boy but I don't like having my best friend around him. I don't want to sound like a bad best friend.
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Sounds like you friend likes him and he likes you both. Try to make all of you face it because if you don't, at the end, you will probably lose them both.
You could talk to her about it without arguing, just to know how she really feels and then try together to find a way to solve the problem.
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Honey believe it or not the same thing has happened to me. It sounds like your boyfriend wants you and your bff at the same time, which is never good. Try to look deeper into the relationship, like talk to his other friends and see what they say about him. They may know something you don't. Also talk to her other friends and see what they say. You never want to be with someone who likes your bff's. Because in the end (trust me I know) you will loose your bff and him. So talk to their friends not them anymore about it. Cause it already sounds like your bff is getting mad about it.
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