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2 weeks after
First I want to apologize if this is in the wrong section!!
17/m
On sunday, March 17th I had sex with my girlfriend, who is 15.
We did use a condom. While having sex I came in the condom still in her and continued to thrust a bit.. I pulled out and the condom was like 1/3 off my penis. She had white stuff around her vagina. I immediately took off the condom and checked for a break and even filled it with water to see (I'll always fill it with water to make sure there is no breaks) and I was scared because this was our first time together. We both have had other partners. She said she didn't know if she orgasmed or not. The next day on the 18th I gave her a morning after pill to just be cautious. She said she was not ovulating.
I looked up when she was suppose to be ovulating and it was the 13th to the 15th or something like that. It was up till the 15th I just don't remember the start date. Tomorrow (Wednesday March 26th) she is suppose to get her period. Today she said her boobs have hurt really bad and has been craving water. I am very worried about this because I can't have a child. I just got a new car and make payments on that and I go to college in a year. Our parents would be very upset with us. Plus I don't want any charges filed on me.
I am really scared and nervous. What are the odds she is pregnant? She is starting to get nervous and stuff too.
I need help and advice.
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The plan B pill can cause her to ahve cravings and for her breasts to hurt as well. If none of your semen got inside of her, there is no chance that she was even pregnant to start. The white stuff may have been her natural lube, or even the lube/latex of the condom. Sex always has a risk involved, so I can't tell you any answer 100%, however it is highly unlikely, expecially since she took the plan B pill. For future reference the sooner she takes that pill the more effective it is though. I think everything is fine. Have he go to planned parenthood or her doctor and get on birth control to avoid these scares in the future. If you have a planned parenthood around you, they also give out free condoms and exams, and the birth control is free with insurance. Good Luck with everything. Remind her that is she stresses out about this is may cause her period to come late. for some reason stress does that to girls' mentral cycles.
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I got freaked out and took the plan b pill once. It completely messed up my cycle. I got my period 2 weeks early and it was much more painful than usual. That pill is a huge dose of hormones so it can really screw with a woman's body for a short time. Her boobs probably hurt because of the pill.
Yes, it's possible that she's pregnant, which is the risk that you take every time that you have sex. If it's this big of a deal to you, you probably shouldn't be doing it, but I'm sure you know that. She should start taking birth control pills if the two of you plan to continue having sex. If it helps you feel better, it is unlikely that she's pregnant. You did use a condom and she did take the morning after pill. Next time, don't continue after ejaculation if you're using a condom. Better yet, even with the condom on, pull out. Pulling out isn't effective on its own, but it's an added layer of protection with condom use especially if she's not going to be taking the pill.
Good luck!
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The morning after pill is usually very effective in preventing pregnancy if taken within 24 hours after sex. The while stuff you saw may not have been semen but rather her discharge from orgasm whether she felt she had one or not.
If you really want to know if she is pregnant is to buy her a home pregnancy test kit and follow the package directions on when is the best time to test and how to use the kit. If the results are negative as I think they will be then you both can relax.
She may not get her period on time or may even miss her period as a result of worry. The stress of worry has been known to throw of the delicate cycle of a young women's menstrual cycle. IF this happens test again. If you still get a negative result you can wait an see if her period arrives late or until her next period is due. Or she can make an appointment to see her GYN.
She is 15 years old and can make this type of appointment without parental consent or knowledge under a Federal Law called HIPPA. This law gives her total privacy over her reproductive system, you too over yours, since age 14.
Parents cannot be told of the reason for a visit, what you are examined or treated for which includes prescribing of birth control or having an abortion. To be told of the reason to anyone requires written permission to the doctor by you. Parents cannot be in the exam room with you during the exam unless you give permission.
Have her take a test or see her GYN for the best answer to your question.
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