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Question Posted Thursday March 21 2013, 1:53 pm

Do you think I will do this if there is a chance any evidence or witnesses will be there? Or if there were cameras in the room or something? This is something that is going to be planned far in advance .


First off, she won't have to deal with anything, if she keeps quiet about it. If she doesn't mention it, then she won't have to go through the ordeals of getting a lawyer, going through an investigation, having all this being gossiped about etc.

two, if she goes against me without any proof. this will look bad. It can make other students think "What is to stop a teacher from making any claim against a student and getting them in trouble" Even parents will wonder that. Wondering if it is their own son or daughter that can get falsely accused.


Also, from talking to some other people online about this subject who tend to be knowledgeable about this and they said the teacher actually automatically be believed since she is the adult and the one in control and also they have to be on the lookout for sexual predators (since many exist) and since she is young it is easy to see the line getting blurred

Now it would be different If I was a known trouble maker. But I am not. I have never broken any school rule or misbehaved in school in any way so they have no real reason to automatically suspect me.


I can also definitely afford much better legal representation than hers

also, the best thing about this, her room is at the end of the hall. This is like perfect placement


also, something I am considering, Many weeks in advance of me carrying out this plan, I will go to my guidance counselor and tell him that my teacher might have been making inappropriate advances
towards me. I will word this VERY carefully and make it clear that I could have just been misrepresenting things and tell him not to worry or do anything about it unless something happens again. That way, if I need to tell people she came onto me later, they will know I warned him weeks in advance, and will have to report what I said weeks in advance later. Giving credence to what I say, I don't think I will do this though it seems to harsh and also there is a chance the counselor will go and tell someone about it anyway

in the end though, we are going to plan this far in advance. No way will I be rushed into it



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adviceman49 answered Thursday March 21 2013, 2:17 pm:
I rejected your question the first time you sent it for you are going beyond naive into obsessive. What you are planning is not only wrong it is illegal.

This is a public forum. You have outlined in detail what you wish to do and how you wish to go about it. While you can delete the question. My answer and the answer of the other advisers remains in our columns for the police to find. As well as your original question and follow up questions and answers.

If you go ahead with your plan the police will check public forums and find this and the others. If your friends or anyone testifies as you have defined they can be charged with perjury, which also can be a felony.

You are correct in what you are thinking at this moment. We do not know your name. What we do have is the information from your computer. Each computer has a a unique identifier in it that is transmitted every time you send something over the Internet. The police with a warrant can trace the identifier back to the computer and you.

Forget this plan and get yourself some mental help.

Moral of story. Prisons are filled with people who think they have plans to break the law that are beyond the ability of the police to catch them. Yours is so flawed the police will not work up a sweat proving you to be a liar and a sex offender you will be if you go ahead with your plan. stop trying to justify that which cannot be justified.

Now get some help.

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