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whats wrong with me?
my problem is..i like a guy who have a same last name as mine... im 25 and hes 21..i dont know why this is happening to me...im confuse..i tried to avoid him but we alway see each other..i tried to move on but every time i see him i cant help it..i try to talk to him or make him notice me..is this normal to like a guy who is younger than you and had the same last name as yours?? dating or liking a guy who is younger than me is big no no no to me esp. with a guy who share a same last name as mine...
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I don't see anything wrong with you. There is nothing wrong with the 4 year difference in your ages. My mother in-law was 5 years older than my father in-law and they had a wonderful marriage.
As for having the same last name. Here two as long as you two are not direct blood relatives I see nothing wrong here. With as many common names as Smith, Murphy, Cooper and others it is not all that unlikely you could meet and fall in love with someone with your same last name. It does save money on any monogrammed towels you might have. Also if it was your intention to take his last name upon marrying you already have it so you save the trouble of changing all of your identification and passport.
I say go for it and try to get to know this guy. Guys have all sorts of lines to pick up girls. A new approach might be is to say you know with us having the same last name we should get married and save all the trouble of having to change all my identification. If nothing else its an ice breaker and hopefully he will get a good laugh from it. It will also tell him a little about what a fun loving girl you might be and peak his interest in dating you.
If or when the age issue comes up. Age is just a number if you two are compatible in every other way it should not stand in the way of you two having a life long relationship.
Good luck and happy hunting.
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