According to a recent survey 85% of us masturbate so then odds are you boy friend wanks off at home. If you ask him to show you how he likes to be wanked it will be more satisfying for him.
When you are ready to let him finger you. You should do the same thing and show him how you like to be touched and where. Most boys learn about sex from watching porn movies. They are not aware that there are some women that are more clitoral in there needs than vaginal. This is something you would need to teach them/him if you are one of those women.
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