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Is it ok for your current GF to talk to an EX even if that EX cares??


Question Posted Friday March 1 2013, 6:28 pm

My current GF did not inform me of them speaking I had suspicion because it was becoming a routine of the texts curiosity is going to kill the cat so I read texts yes it was bad on my part but she should had told me aswell my GF dosent find anything wrong with this because the EX is having family tradigies but the EX has confessed her feeling to my GF, what do I do?????

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Additional info, added Saturday March 2 2013, 12:35 pm:
It hurts way to much because we are like peanut butter and jelly and she was sneaky about it all, the EX has even disrespected me by confessing her love to my GF and saying one night how she went to be bed thinking about her and my GF response was JOIN THE CREW :-( .

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Xui answered Friday March 1 2013, 10:32 pm:
It's this simple;

Unless there are children involved between the two, There should be no reason to be in contact with an ex. Family tragedies or not they are no longer together and it should not be her problem.

I would be questioning whether she is even over him to be honest with you. Whether or not she will admit it....sounds like she never moved on. You need to find yourself someone who is into you and wants to be with you, Not hung up on an ex.

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VirgoPrincess answered Friday March 1 2013, 7:26 pm:
Although it was very inappropriate for your girlfriend to hide something like this from you, it really is not a bad thing. Would you rather have them hating on each other for no reason, or getting along? As long as their relationship is not based on you as a topic of interest, you both should be perfectly fine. Just let her know that you understand you both have done some sneaky things and that you'd like to be more open and honest with each other. Also, if there is anything your ex may know that could potentially break up the two of you, let your current girlfriend know from you before she finds out from your ex!

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