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how do you get with a girl?
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What to do: ask her on a date. If she says no, get over it and ask someone else.
What not to do: become her "friend" with the expectation that if you put in kindness coins, sex will come out.
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You do not simply "get with a girl". It takes time. She doesn't want to be forgotten or used or anything. Okay, I hope you're not talking about sex here. If you are, I will say only this. No. You will not, you should not, and you may not. If it's about being in a relationship, read on.
Being in a relationship with someone takes more than gluing your names together with a simple photo and coordinating relationship statuses. It takes time, love, and devotion. You cannot simply walk up to a girl and say, "Hey, I like your face. Date me?" It will not cut it. List five reasons you like her. If you can do it quickly, and it's not all about her body, then you have succeeded step one. If you haven't succeeded, drop your whole fantasy of her. Now. Step two, though, becomes a bit more complicated. Become friends. Now, girls develop feelings for friends probably more than guys do. Maybe not. But, to be on the safe side, right before you are stuck in Friendship Bay, grow some balls and say, "I've liked you for awhile. Will you go to [insert date location here]?" If she says yes, score! If not, move on and stay friends. Who knows? Maybe she'll ask you one day.
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