hi i am a boy from India,i have a girlfriend of age 20 and i have a age of 21..she is a girl who i love the most i want to live my life with her and i could say that i am the best lover in this world i loved her and loving her that mush til now.. but now days i hate her because she often fighting with me and hurting with her behavior ..she is not like before she used to care me well but no she hating me and talking harsh and often my girlfriend getting tensed for everything she don't like me to advice in anything but i want to advice..she may choose wrong path so i fear in everything to care her and advice her..i used to advice about her dressing and to reduce her angry and temper even i have changed myself for her but still she is not changing her and hurting me in words i am much much worried about it ..she always say that i am restricting her nu ..i don't know what to do now i am unable to sleep unable to eat its been guilty for me every day..i have said many times to her to reduce her anger but never she tried not only with me with her family also ..and i used to say not do a thing but she is doing it which is not good for her..yesterday she used a word that i came and fall in love with me is stupid and she is sufferings with me like that ..she saying am not much talented in anything like that but i hope i give my best in everything still what i have to do..she said me to leave my anger i left,she asked me not to restrict her i did.. only in dress i used to restrict only if awkward but now she don't even want me to open my mouth...are we should live together or not :( ...her words sometimes kills me i don't know what to say ..each and every second i will be thinking of her only but now i feel why should i do it even though now i am doing it to care her and to celebrate her birthday in grant manner which in three days :(
A relationship can only work if both people are willing ti make it work. Your girlfriend does not want to live her life the way you think is best. You both want different things, That is fine but you both are not meant to be. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
Razhie answered Tuesday February 26 2013, 7:43 pm: You are not happy. She is not happy.
She is angry with you and you are angry with her.
She wants to live her life differently than you think is best. That is okay, but it means you cannot be together anymore.
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