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help me!!!!
Hi im an aussie girl who 13 years old turning 14.
What ive been wondering is why do i get turned on just by looking at a picture of my crush it freaks me out even talking about him turns me on. He does know this stuff happens and we both like each other but were not going out. PLEASE HELP!!!!! I wanna know why this happens.
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It's totally normal for a girl ur age to feel that way it's just growing up and thinking about him makes u feel like that inside
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Hiya mate! Well getting turned on is part mental and part physical, I figure you know that already eh? They're both there in the mix. Fact is, it's such a 'mix' that none of us can actually separate the two! So looking at his picture, thinking and chatting about him are enough to kick-start the whole process and nature takes its course, you might say. When you say 'why' is there a bit of an 'is it natural and OK to feel like this?' question in there? If there is, the answer's yes and yes! It would be a bit odd if you looked at his photo and thought 'Yuk...don't know why I fancy him' wouldn't it? Now I feel sure he gets a good feeling looking at a picture of you, or just thinking about you. But blokes are a bit reluctant to say stuff like that, a lot of us talk less about our feelings than you young ladies. You tell me he knows...well I bet you anything he feels flattered and basically chuffed to bits about that. And so he should! It all really hinges on the fact that you're growing up now. Bet a year or so ago you reckoned boys were pretty stupid and horrible things right? Couldn't imagine looking at one and feeling all loved-up? Don't get freaked out...you've got a whole lifetime of looking at guys stretching out in front of you. Who knows, you might be looking at future boyfriend material here already! No rush though, take it easy...and don't worry about it.
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