so i love my boyfriend very much we hae ben together three months and were close n just i get prtoective of him around certian girls but he digs that , sometimes i just get this feeling he might rather be doing other thigs but he tells me he doesnt cause ill tell him its ok if he hangs out with his guy friends and that its ok , and im really laid back so he knows i mean it but we went to the mall earlier and after i left i said did you have fun after i left and he said ya it was great i said cool , but he said its sad cause i got really hyper when you left i said oh... he said i wished you were there and didnt have to leave cause it would have been fun-er and(my ex boyfriend was there i guess) and your ex is alright i guess cause we were all joking around. (i hate my ex cause he cheated on me but my boyfriend said he didnt think it ment alot caue i was only with my ex for a week) is it bad if all of this make me bothered or am i just ...overly thinking it? Sorry If This Is Long. im a female and im turning 16 my boyfriends 18
Your ex might have been a dick to you, but your boyfriend is also right: You only dated him for a week, he screwed up and your broke up.
This makes your ex a lousy boyfriend for you - but it doesn't make him a horrible human being that no one should be friends with.
It's okay to be a bit weirded out by it, or to not want to be your exes friends - but your boyfriend should be able to be friendly to him in a large group without it upsetting you. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
Xui answered Sunday February 24 2013, 12:53 am: You're over thinking it.
Your boyfriend is entitled to have friendsand even be friends with your ex.
Uf you were with your ex for a week technically in my mind you weren't even dating. If it was for a length of time and you had built a past then I could understand but a week? NA, let it go. Not worth it [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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