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how can I die now or asap


Question Posted Thursday February 21 2013, 5:08 pm

I hate myself and have wanted to die for many many years now, can anyone help me accomplish this? do NOT lecture me or try to scare me or talk me out of it. PLEASE I only want help, suggestions, know success, etc. so I can proceed now. The sooner the better, ive put this off for way too long. I have made attempts and have obviously failed. Please help me to finally successfully end my useless life. I am an organ donor and would prefer to help anyone I can with what I have, I do not need it. I only need 1 thing, and that is death, this life means nothing. I do not help anyone or anything, I am lost, lonely, confused, yet absolutely DONE. Being here could be hell.

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karenR answered Thursday February 21 2013, 11:57 pm:
Life can really suck at times. I think everyone has probably gone through something at one time or another and thought it would just be easier to end it all.

Then you wake up one day and think, man, I'm glad I'm still here. First...If anyone were to give you advice on killing yourself, they would be gone from here so fast it would make your head spin. Just not gonna happen.

Second, How would anyone know what works well & what doesn't? Probably only those with medical knowledge. They won't tell you how because they just don't do things like that.

Third, do you really want to depend on the advice of some stranger on a subject such as this? Do you realize how many down right whack jobs we have to ban just because they give rotten advice?

Admittedly not as many as we used to, but still...there are idiots out there who get their jollies telling people the most harmful things. Some just because they don't know as much as they think they do. Others just because there are mean people in this world with nothing better to do.

Stop with the attempts. Instead of trying to off yourself, put that energy into fixing what ails you. Go see a doctor. I've known plenty of people who have wanted to end it all. A couple were successful. All they got for their actions was dead. They didn't FIX anything. All they did was make life hell for family and friends.

You can be far more useful to others by fixing yourself & then getting educated to help others fix themselves. Your organs won't be worth crap to anyone. By the time you are found they would be useless. Your methods would probably make them useless anyway.

So, no good useful advice for offing yourself here. I do hope to hear someday that you got off your butt and went out there and found help for yourself. You really are worth the effort ya know.

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TheAnnie answered Thursday February 21 2013, 11:43 pm:
I'm sorry to say dear user that unfortunately no one on this site will tell you how to commit suicide. Even though the users on this site might not have any personal connection to you, they do not want to see you end yourself. You see...you are a stranger to me and still I feel sad knowing that you feel this way. I really wouldn't feel good knowing that I helped you die... I've known many different people and they have had difficulties in life. In fact, I truly believe that everyone has their own set of problems that test them to the limit. I've known people who have been abused both verbally and physically. I have known people who have had so little self esteem and confidence. In fact, it was not to long when I was battling my own terrors and still am. Life is tough. There is no way to say that in a better way. It's hard and it will always be hard. But, the trick is to find one thing that you can change or one thing that will keep you going. You said that you hate yourself, why? Is it due to a physical attribute? Or have you been unable to accomplish a goal? You have to look at yourself and know you're a valuable person despite mistakes you have made. you have to see that even though you are going through tough times, you have the power to make things better. I'm sorry I can't answer your question and I'm sorry I can't give you the answer you're looking for. But, I truly hope that you realize you're important and you're worth it. And most importantly that you're worth living. Don't give up. Never give up.

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HeretoHelp418 answered Thursday February 21 2013, 11:00 pm:
no! I know how miserable life can be, but you shouldnt end it. Please, do you at least wanna talk about it?

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