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this boy i'm in love with i think?
this boy hes a manwhore he does one night stands he says girls have to much politics he wasnt like this at first he cared for this girl a year back hes 17, but she played his so he didnt want to have another girl cos he got really hurt. he's said before he would have a girl if he really liked her i have known him for 6 months now and hes amazing, lovely personality and so funny always puts a smile on my face i know i really like him but he says he wont change who he is but he doesnt no i like him either but what i think hes hiding his real self not giving a real girl a chance hes just going to slags and get nothing of it just sex... despite all this i cant stop liking him? can yous help me please i need to know what to do i want him to see his real self cos he can make himself change hes did it quite alot we were really close meeting up and going on cam and stuff then one day he just stoped taking and know we only talk once and a wile but i cant change my feelings for him i need him to know but i dont know what to say? if anyone could help me i would be so thankful xx
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Hey there,
You don't have to try and change anything about this guy. If he likes you back and wants a relationship with you, then you should expect him to be fully committed with you and to end his man-whoreish ways. Tell him in person that you really enjoy spending time with him and that he's the only person you're interested in. Let him know that you are looking for a relationship and willing to take things slow. He needs to know that you're not the type of chick he usually just hangs out with to have sex with. Allow him to process this and to let you know how he feels. Be patient and try hard not to push him for an answer right away. If he feels the same way, then you won't have to worry about him being with other girls. If he doesn't feel the same way, it isn't your fault at all. He told you already that he won't change, but what he really means is that he doesn't want to change. He just needs some more time and isn't ready to be committed yet. In that case, I would try to stay clear of him for a while until he gets his head straight and realizes that the girls he is sleeping with aren't going to be enough for him. They won't care enough, and are probably sleeping with other men too which is why he got his heart broken in the first place. Let him know what he is missin! :) xx
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