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My husban is having a sexual relationship with another woman and always angry with me
how to get my husband back? he is having a relation with another lady and always angry with me.please help me.i am from india.
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I am not familiar with the customs in India. Here in the USA a women would not put up with her husband having sex with another women. In fact that would be grounds for a divorce and the women would walk away taking everything but the shirt on his back.
I realize that the customs in India are a bit different than here in the USA but for the life of me I can not understand why you would want such a cheating bastard back. I also know that different parts of your country follow different customs. In certain areas of your country his adultery is not only a legal crime but a crime of your religion.
If his adultery is a crime of your religion I would go to your cleric and report both him and the women he is committing adultery with and let the culture of your community take care of this.
Should you live in the portion of the country that is more western in nature I would file for divorce. The bonds of matrimony are sacred and he has broken them. This sin is on him not you.
Forty-two years ago when my wife and I first married she told me she had no problem with me looking at the menu. Should I ever sample from the menu or attempt to reorder then she would cut off a very important part of me.
This has worked very well for us all these years. I can look and she even points out different items she thinks I would like to see. But the only time I have not slept in her bed is when I am away on a business trip and I am the only one in that bed. Of course at those times she is always with me in spirit.
In my mind regardless of cultures a wife is special and due the respect of the marriage vows. He has dishonored you by having sex with another women as well as endangered your health. My advice is never let him back in your home or your bed.
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I know you love this man but this is far from healthy and you shouldn't put up with the affair or his anger. He's not showing love or concern for you. As hard as it is moving on for your own health and well-being makes a lot of sense. I know you didn't want to hear this but he's not about to change any time soon.
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