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Why don't guys ever want my phone number?
A lot of my friends get hit on while they are at work. Guys will ask them for their phone numbers, or leave a number, etc. I have NEVER, and I mean NEVER had a customer ask me for my phone number, or leave me theirs.
Why don't guys ever leave me their numbers, or ask for mine? I'm pretty average looking, I guess. I often have a flirty/friendly conversation with customers at the cash register, but they never leave me numbers or anything.
Why? What's wrong with me? I'm 18 btw.
Thanks :)
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i have this same issue with all of my friends. and ive got it down to one thing... CONFIDENCE.
you saying that you are average looking instantly tells me you dont have very high self esteem, this is an automatic turn off to men. just be more confident and fun and friendly, watch how your friends act and try to be abit more like them... not exactly the same, make it your own style =)
good luck, stay in touch xx
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Not many people are going to give their number out to someone they do not know. It comes across as desperate and in my eyes I would never randomly give my number out like that. Expecially when someone is on the job as it is inappropriate.
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There's nothing wrong with you. In fact you are what most guys are looking for in a girl and or dying to find. You are bright and not fake and have your head screwed on straight.
I have a feeling your friends could be exaggerating how much they get hit on. If they aren't they may be hit on because of the place they work for is more relaxed than yours and clientele are different.
Perhaps customers figure it's frowned upon to do that where you work and at your workplace fellow employees won't because of rules about it.
The other thing you have to worry about is how stable and or desperate those guys are to hand numbers over to girls they don't know and met at the register for 2 seconds.
Sure they may be great guys some of them but could also be nightmares so it's not completely cracked up to be what you think.
Having said that if you meet someone you like at work there's nothing wrong with taking a business card and writing your name and number on the back and asking the guy to "call me if you want someone cool to hangout with that isn't into mind games." That may get you somewhere.
There's nothing wrong with you and you'll find someone eventually. You want the right person not just who is available and expressed interest on the spot. I would relax and continue to be your normal flirty self and see what transpires. Also, outside of work try to find new social outlets to meet the kind of guy you are looking for.
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